Avoided meltdown upon return 🏆


Hey Reader!

I'm back.

Three weeks in Italy, France, and Spain — my first real vacation since 2019. Before I left, I told my team I'd check in twice a week.

I checked in six times. There was nothing for me to do. Nothing at all.

My Asana was empty. My inbox was handled. And Kat? She had a whole sales conversation and a new client booked without me (literally at all) — which is usually my job, my call, my face on the screen.

I came home and just felt... cared for. By my own team. That's the part I keep turning over, just soaking it all up in utter gratitude.

So this morning I sat down with my notebook and my black coffee and wrote out everything the trip taught me. This episode is that list — the lessons that snuck up on me somewhere between the Colosseum and a sun bed in Nice.

Things like:

  • What six years of building a team actually buys you (an empty Asana, and a sale my team member closed without me)
  • Why I let myself rest before I was full-blown sick, instead of after (like before).
  • How a three-page doc for my cat Tillie's house-sitters is the exact thing I mean by a welcome sequence.
  • The question I stopped asking people halfway through the trip, because it got weird.
  • Why the sweaty, train-delayed parts of travel are just like the parts of client work you never have to see.

LISTEN NOW 👉 Three Weeks in Europe: What I Learned When My Team Didn't Need Me.

And okay — nobody asked me for a travel recap. But I saved my favorite parts of every city for the end anyway, because I have a feeling you're a little curious. The Vespa ride, the tapas, the 22-year-old cat named Nona. It's all in there.s

If something here hits home — the rest you keep putting off, or the team you're trying to trust — reply back and tell me. I read every one.

Let's Duett,

Allea

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